To take revenge on troublemakers only more problems and disorders can be done.
You must realize that negative feelings and hostile actions could only bring harm and suffering, and troublemakers.
To undertake retaliatory action, you must harbor intense hatred in your heart. This hatred is like a poison.
Since the poison is in you at first, but will hurt you before he can harm someone else.
Before you throw a burning iron toothers get burned first.
Their action is just to show that there is no fundamental difference between you and your opponent.
For others, just hate them power over you. You do not own a problem solver.
If you are angry with a person who smiles when you get back, then you will feel defeated and miserable. Since it does not cooperate with you to satisfy your desire is to win.
The Buddha teaches us how to live happy when we are facedDisorders.
"Ah, happily live without hate among the hateful. Midst hateful people, we live without hate." - Dhammapada.
We are able to live happily, without fanning the flames of hatred. It may not be strong enough to extend compassionate love your enemies, but for the sake of your health and happiness and the happiness of one another are, at least you learn to forgive and forget.
Even if you do not hate you or break troublemaker to act like a gentleman. In actionIn this way, one must understand the other person, anger, jealousy and ignorance has led them astray. It is not so different from any other people that also seduced at one time or another by the same negative emotional states.
The Buddha said: "The trouble makers are not evil by nature to do evil because they are ignorant .." Therefore, they need advice.
We should not curse. It is not acceptable for us to say that should be condemned to eternalSuffering, as it is never too late to correct them.
We should try very convincingly, that are actually wrong to explain. With this understanding, you can treat the guilty, as if you were a patient in need of an illness and treatment, is suffering.
If the disease is cured, the ex-patients and all the others are well and happy.
The ignorant must be guided by the wise.
"The good life is inspired by love and guided by knowledge."
If a mansomething wrong to you because of ignorance or misunderstanding, then it's time to shine your compassionate love for the wrongdoer.
One day you will realize this madness and soften his bad habits. So you better give him a chance to be good.
Remorse for his past transgressions turns it into a better person and in the end really appreciate your kind thoughts.
The compassionate Buddha's advice:
"Hatred does not stop with hate;
byOnly love ceases.
This is an eternal law. "Dhammapada
If you love radiate compassionate, no damage to you. This will help you achieve the physical and mental health.
Life has its own rhythm. If you lose on the swings you gain on the roundabout.
Those who do not understand this principle often in trouble and difficulties in life.
If a person does something wrong to you again and again, you should exercise caution when correcting him every timecommits the error.
Although it is not so easy to do, you should still do your best to follow the example of the Buddha.
Then you will know that it is not impossible.
The attitude of the Buddha, such a situation could thus be summarized as: - '. The more the evil that comes to me, the more good will radiate from me "
Some people think that a reward is not practical, evil with good. Try and see for yourself
If you find it difficult toto return good for evil, then you can still do a great service to yourself and to others by at least not returning evil for evil.
'Sympathetic consideration is needed for less-understanding people who make mistakes.'
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